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Happy Homemaker Monday

Another quiet week on my blog last week. Not so much in real life. This is my first day off work since the day after Halloween. I really enjoyed my 31 days of questions and answers series and hope you did as well. It seems that ended and my work turned crazy again.

Hopefully, it’s all sorted now and I can have a bit of a quieter week and check in on this place (and yours!) a bit more often now.

And of course, I do have to just have to say a few more things on one subject (non-sports people feel free to skip):

How about those Chiefs!!!!!???? Nine and O! 

Our conversation during the last 2 seconds of that game:

Me: They are going to lose. Why? Why to Denver of all teams?

Maybe he’ll miss the kick.

Husband: He’s not going to miss.

Me: Can they block the kick?

Husband: That’s all they can try to do but that’s probably not going to happen.

And then, you football fans out there know the rest of the story….

CHEERING all around over here. Go Chiefs!

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Okay, back to the subject of joining in with Sandra over at Diary Of A Stay At Home Mom for Happy Homemaker Monday.

The weather in my neck of the woods

Can not make up its mind. Actually, it’s finally fall out there. It was about 45 degrees this morning and supposed to be in the 60’s this afternoon. It’s been warm enough though that I moved pretty much all my plants back outside. Going to have to move them in again soon though. And last week as well as on Saturday, we finally had some much needed rain. Even though my picture is of rain, today is a beautiful sunny day.

Things that make me happy

The season finally changing over to autumn weather along with some beautiful trees, the return of standard time (hello, light in the morning again!), and quiet weekends at home.

Book I’m reading

Chloe’s Cornish Christmas by Daisy James.  Light holiday romance.

What’s on my tv today

Nothing. Yesterday was football. We’ll probably watch the Monday night football game. If I do watch something later it’ll just be catch up on shows like Found and Brilliant Minds.

On the breakfast plate

French toast sticks and sausage. Coffee, vitamins.

On the lunch plate

Grilled cheese

On the dinner plate

Roast is in the slow cooker. Probably making it into sandwiches and serving with fries.

On the menu

J’s birthday is Friday and my husband is going out of town for part of the week.

MONDAY: Roast in the crock pot

TUESDAY: pork chops and sweet potatoes *I work 8-4*

WEDNESDAY: Broccoli chicken Fettuccine Alfredo casserole *I work 12:30-4* Also, J requested this meal

THURSDAY: manicotti, salad *G requested this one*

FRIDAY: spicy Korean chicken, rice, cookie cake *J’s birthday meal request*

On my to do list

  • Grocery store (DONE)
  • Remind husband to help me get out the Keurig (it’s in a Christmas tub that I can’t reach)
  • Laundry
  • General housekeeping

New recipe I tried or want to try

The broccoli chicken Fettuccine Alfredo casserole is new.

What I am creating

Not much, just trying to the get the house to look nice for Thanksgiving, and then shortly after Christmas!

A peek at the reality of my house right now:

Photo

Quote for the week

There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor? (James 4:12 NIV)

Happy Halloween!

Well, I bombed the end of this 31 days thing but let’s make up for it today with 3 questions. Some Halloween related and some just “normal” questions.

I’ll just list them by day. Pictures are in this post just for fun.

TUESDAY

I worked on Tuesday and to say it was a rough day would not say enough. The afternoon class kids at rest time brought me to tears. That happens so seldom to me at work (as in that’s probably only 3rd or 4th time in 10 years I lost it while I was actually at work and in front of the kids, too. UGH). SIGH.

The classroom I subbed in on Tuesday is just a rough one this year and the teachers in there are not getting the support they need or deserve. They are getting more blame for the kids’ behavior than is fair. The whole issue has me looking at other job opportunities again.

Honestly, after Tuesday, I’m questioning if I’m even in the right field. Those nagging doubts, ever get those?  Here’s one that should have been Tuesday’s question: Do you ever have imaginary conversations/arguments with other people? 

WEDNESDAY

Photo comment: My phone suggested the above photo contained “sensitive” images. What?

Yesterday was a better day than Tuesday. I didn’t work so that helped. I didn’t get called in and was glad.

First part of the day I spent feeling a bit nostalgic. I have been the last few weeks. Just missing the simpler times when the kids were little and we got together with family for holidays. Really been missing my late mother-in-law and my husband’s aunt lately. And of course, my parents and the big loud (okay, not missing the loud, lol) holiday gatherings.

I decided to clean up the house a bit and see if I couldn’t improve my mood. Then, my husband came home early from work because of the weather. (We finally got some rain! Hooray!) And my cleaning the house plans ended. Mainly because the one thing I did, clean off the table, undone as soon as he walked in the door. GRR.

Yesterday’s Question: Do you mind cleaning the house when other people are home? Or do you prefer to clean the house when it is empty?

THURSDAY: TODAY!

Let’s keep today’s question simple. Are you planning a special Halloween meal for tonight? What is it? Is it traditional or something new?

(Or if not, just what’s for dinner tonight? I know it’s a repeat question).

Bonus: Favorite candy?

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My answers below. First though, stylish avatar Jean decided to be a mermaid queen for Halloween:

Tuesday question answers: Pretty obvious, I think, I do indeed get those nagging doubts. And let me tell you, I’ve been having some imaginary conversations with the my boss/the administrator at my work that are pretty harsh.

Wednesday question answers: I much prefer to clean the house when everybody is gone, doesn’t happen often enough around here. Even though I stopped my serious cleaning yesterday, I did manage to get all the laundry done.

Today’s answers:

We’re having a Halloween-themed meal tonight but I’m keeping it very simple. Spooky chicken nuggets (from a bag!), steamed broccoli, and biscuits. Plus the brownie cake from the recipe pictured above. It’s from a Nightmare Before Christmas Cookbook that G gave me last Christmas. Most the recipes are rather advanced but this one had a skill level of easy.

My favorite candy is Bottle Caps but since they aren’t a traditional Halloween candy to steal out of the kid stash, my close second is Almond Joys.

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Waiting

Thought I was going to post earlier today. However, I just spent 2 hours and 45 minutes waiting in line to vote early. Yes, you read the wait time correctly.  The line stretched 2 and half blocks long. Whew!

Me after waiting almost 3 hours to vote

 

Now, I don’t have to worry about it next Tuesday. The weather today was nice (except a bit windy) with a record high in the 80’s. There’s a 75 % chance of rain next week (which we desperately need) so now I won’t be standing in that. And, if I’ve already voted, I won’t mind if I get called into work next Tuesday either.

Anyway, waiting in line made me wonder the following. Do you chat with the people around you while waiting in a long line or are you more likely to be scrolling on your phone or reading a book?  Would you have waited in a 2 hour line or turned around and come back another time?

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My answers:  I’m a people watcher plus I do casually chat with the people in the line. Makes the time go faster. The woman behind me had the great idea we should get a better reward than a sticker for a 2 hour wait, we were thinking like a Diet Coke, ha. Her and her husband lived sort of in the area where I grew up so that was interesting. And we chatted about the restaurants around the area where we waited. And the people in front kept us all entertained or rather their granddaughter who was not quite 2 did. They were keeping her because mom just had a new baby.

Everyone in the line was nice and friendly, looking out for the older lady who didn’t have good balance making sure she had places to sit, chatting about light topics. No arguing about anything political just normal people exercising their right to vote.

Clearly, I waited it out in the line. I was just determined to get it done today. There are probably days where I couldn’t have done it.

Also, not related but sharing this other fun picture and saying hey, the Chiefs are 7 & 0. Woohoo!

Black Cat Day

Read that today was national black cat day. We’re letting our little gray cat be honored a bit since she does look almost black in the dark.

Here are the questions for today:

  • Do you own a cat? What color is your cat?
  • Are you a cat or a dog person?
  • And finally, since it is black cat day and some people associate them with bad luck, are you superstitious?

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My answers:

I guess I gave it away sort of at the start of this post. One minor comment though: We don’t own a cat. We are employed by a little gray cat. She owns us.

And though it took me some years to discover it, I’m most definitely 100% a cat person. Of course, that doesn’t mean I won’t pet your lovely dogs if I’m at your house. I am scared of big loud barking dogs though.

Superstitious? I’d say a little bit. Maybe. I don’t think black cats are bad luck especially. However, I’ll probably be drawing an X with my hand if one crosses my path. And the boys think it’s hilarious but I throw that salt over my left shoulder if I spill it. Finally, of course, I have to wear my Chiefs shirts or red of some sort on game days.

Costume Party

I think I’ve done pretty good with this series so I’m going to give myself a break for missing yesterday. Long work day and it was still one of those weeks. So glad it’s Saturday. Finally.

So, let’s just move on to today’s question.

Have any Halloween parties or events to attend? Or that you already attended? Did you dress up for them? And if so, what was your costume? Costumes you’ve worn in the past?

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My answers: I have an event to attend tonight. A painting party with a costume contest. However, unlike my stylish game avatar in the picture, real life Jean’s costume is a bit (a lot) more dull. Hardly making an effort to tell the truth. I’m wearing an oversized jack-o-lantern tee-shirt and some black tights with black shorts. Planning to pull my hair up (kinda like the picture but more on top) and wrap some green ribbon around it for “leaves.”

Not sure why but I’ve never been much into the dressing up for Halloween/parties. Maybe it’s emotional scarring from those 70’s plastic masks that made breathing and seeing a bit difficult. I was Fred Flintstone one year in those times! Fun.  A witch once or twice. And in my early 20’s one time I dressed up as a scarecrow at work.

For the most part, the preschool parties are pajama parties. So I have some snoopy themed Halloween pajama bottoms (my favorites because they have pockets!). And a pair of moon and stars type pajama bottoms. As well as my tinkerbell ones but I seldom wear those if I work on party days at preschool. First, they are too hot any more (crazy weather) and it’s hard to pass up on pockets especially at work.

Ouch

Just a quick one for today. Had a hard time thinking of a question. Then, my newest ache and pain started flaring again.

One of those phantom injuries that appeared out of nowhere. Well, I think I did something at work but didn’t feel the OUCH until a few days later. So, I’m wondering when was the last time you injured yourself? Or the last time you grabbed a band aid?

My answers:

I did something to aggravate my elbow of all things about a month ago? One of those injuries that’s not serious enough to call the doctor but hurts enough to consult google. It comes and goes.

Probably aggravated a ligament or tendon. Icy hot and ibuprofen. Oh, and rest. Ha! Times 5 million to that part of it all. Found one of those compression sleeve things at Menards so sometimes I’ll wear that though usually not at work. I think I hurt my elbow/arm at work picking up little chairs one handed or cots.

Working with small children I grab band aids a lot. Last time I grabbed one for myself, I don’t really remember.  Probably for a paper cut or (accidental) cat scratch.

 

 

Catch Up Question

Pretend it’s Wednesday and I’m keeping up with this series of questions and answers. Still been a week. I think I can definitely say that one on a Thursday, yes?

It’s going to be a 2 post kind of day.

Wednesday’s question came to me late last night as I was cleaning the kitchen. If I’d have cleaned the kitchen in a timely manner instead of putting it off until right before bed, then I’d have posted last night.

Storage Wars

I’ve never pretended to be even the slightest bit organized. Even my old blog was named for my lack of this.  One area that seems to be a constant mess around here is (everywhere!) the kitchen. Some of this is by design. I mean the kitchen design. Our kitchen isn’t very big and storage (yes, I do use that cherry pitter about 1 or 2 times a year, maybe) becomes an issue. It’s probably time for another cleaning/clearing session.

An aside here: I’ve never understood the minimalist/clutter clearing advice to get rid of things you haven’t used in 6 months. Of course, I’m not using a cherry pitter in December when um, cherries aren’t in season. And I’m not using Christmas cookie cutters in February (usually). Anyone follow this advice about the 6 months thing?

That’s not the question for today, however. My question today is about Tupperware or Rubbermaid (more common around here) storage containers. How big is your collection? And how do you store them? Cabinet? Drawer? Lids on or lids off?

My answer

We still store all our containers in one of the cabinets. We have 2 shelves worth.

My husband and I disagree on the number of containers we should own. Have I perhaps banned the washing and reusing of all restaurant containers and things that previously held food? Yes. And yes, I know my mother and mother-in-law both did this but I like to see and know what’s in the containers. As far as the argument about containers not returning, then put the food on a paper plate with some foil. Or call and get the container back.

We used to store all our containers stacked together with the lids on the side. It was a bit of a nightmare finding the right lids to the containers, things falling out of the cabinet. Then, I read somewhere about storing the containers with lids on them. Game changer! (Even though I know in my picture it looks like things are about to fall out of the cabinet. Also, the lids in the corner there are for small bowls we typically use for salsa so we never add those lids.)

Probably should also note that my husband is not a huge fan of this method and doesn’t always put the containers away “right.”  I love this method though as not only does it prevent the “fallout” but also gives us a built in limit in how many containers fit in the cabinet. Probably another reason he’s not a fan as it helps enforce my extra storage container ban.

When

When can you say it’s been one of those week? Is Tuesday to soon?

A couple photos for this post at least.

My answer: I don’t think so. Suffice it to say it’s been a week and yes, I’m saying this on a Tuesday. Tell me, how is your week going so far?

 

Double Question Day

Missed Sunday (had a question just never made it onto the computer yesterday). And now it’s Monday.

I have to leave for work very soon (as in I really don’t have time to do this but here I sit). Let’s start with yesterday’s question.

No time for pics today, sorry.

Sunday’s Question:

Stupid arguments. What’s the last dumb argument (I mean super silly) you had with someone?

My answer: Over the weekend, my husband and I had an argument about how every new pop song was trying to sound like a Taylor Swift song. His opinion. I disagreed. Dumb.

Monday’s Question:

Do you like Mondays? (Keeping it super simple as I’m limited on my time)

My answer: Sometimes. I used to love them when I stayed home and everyone left for work and school. Ah, the quiet house. That routine is gone now. So, sometimes I enjoy them and sometimes I wake up a bit grumpy. Today, case in point.

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Hope you all have a wonderful week!

Movie Time

We actually went out to the movies today. So for today, how about some quick movie going questions.

Are you a get there early and watch the previews person?  Popcorn? Do you add butter? Favorite movie candy? Last movie you saw in the theater? Did you enjoy it?

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My answers: Yes, I’m the weirdo that actually enjoys watching the previews. How else are you going to know what new movies you might want to see? I might have a little popcorn but I’m not a big fan of added butter. And really, I’m fine without the popcorn also. If we’re buying the movie theater candy, I’ll take Junior Mints. Sometimes red hots but usually the Junior Mints.

We saw Beetlejuice this afternoon and it was a pretty good movie. Worth going to see if you’re wondering.

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